The aim of this article is to bring reflections on self-esteem and how its qualification can contribute to the accomplishment of the Existential Program through the exercise of the cosmoethic leadership. The importance of the development of the consciential triendowment is emphasized as a basis for self-evolution and how personal realisations act upon the building of self-esteem. It is also approached the question of personal
singularity, drawing a parallel with the cosmoethic application of heterocomparison. The present work concludes with a reflection about the importance of living consciously, with realism and optimism, to make us freer and more deintrusioned.